They're gonna get, you know, hopefully a lot—a lot of different things.

What I've experienced in sharing this book with women is, first of all, a lot of women that are single are rather frustrated with the dating scene.

Basically, the bottom line statement that I often hear is they're tired of dating. They're exhausted by it, they're drained by it, and they don't quite know—they can't exactly put their fingers on what they want. But they know what they're getting is not it. What they're seeing right now is not what they want.

What I'm attempting to do with this book is present a picture of what good, effective, fun masculinity actually feels like. I'm trying to paint the picture for men so that we have some kind of model to go with.

But also, very much, I want to paint the picture for women so that they can go, "Oh yeah, that's what I'm looking for. That's actually the experience that I wanna have with a man—when I'm on a date, when he's approaching me in public, when we get into a relationship, or when we're married and have children. This is the kind of energy that I wanna feel coming out of him.