How can men get their dream woman?
Run time: 02:20
November 16, 2024
Well, the piece of advice is, yes—you can, you can do it. What you have to do is do it, though, and not just sit back and dream about it in a safe place. We—in a lot of society today, we're watching things happen on a screen, thinking about what we would like, and we're doing nothing in the process to actually make that happen. Nothing is going to change in—when we're in that situation.
We have to step outside of our front door and actually engage with life in order for us to see anything change. And that's, you know—um, venturing into the dark places, that's part of that process. And when you step out the door, okay, you have a picture in your mind of what your dream woman is. You know what she looks like, you know how she behaves, you know how she dresses, you know—you know how old she is, you know what color her hair is. You know, you got all these pictures that you have in your mind.
Well, when you actually step out into the world and you start engaging with the world, then you start going from dream women into real women. And when you're meeting real women, you start to swap out the picture—the fantasy you have in your mind—for actual, real experiences. And you know, the real experiences, cause you're facing fears inside of yourself to even speak with her in the first place.
And the minute you start doing that, your whole understanding of what's possible and what's not is going to be rewritten over and over and over every single time you step out your front door and you have an interaction with a woman. And you dare to go to the place that's difficult for you and speak with her, you're going to learn entirely new things about who she is or—you know, who women are and how they respond. And you're very much gonna learn new things about yourself.
But a lot of people—a lot of us guys—are stuck in a place where we're imagining and dreaming about a world that—that's all just a fantasy inside of our heads. And it's funny because we can dream up anything we want, but at the same time, we're stuck inside the same limitations because we know inside of our hearts that, because we're not actually stepping out and doing anything, that the whole thing is actually just collapsing under us.
We have to step outside of our front door and actually engage with life in order for us to see anything change. And that's, you know—um, venturing into the dark places, that's part of that process. And when you step out the door, okay, you have a picture in your mind of what your dream woman is. You know what she looks like, you know how she behaves, you know how she dresses, you know—you know how old she is, you know what color her hair is. You know, you got all these pictures that you have in your mind.
Well, when you actually step out into the world and you start engaging with the world, then you start going from dream women into real women. And when you're meeting real women, you start to swap out the picture—the fantasy you have in your mind—for actual, real experiences. And you know, the real experiences, cause you're facing fears inside of yourself to even speak with her in the first place.
And the minute you start doing that, your whole understanding of what's possible and what's not is going to be rewritten over and over and over every single time you step out your front door and you have an interaction with a woman. And you dare to go to the place that's difficult for you and speak with her, you're going to learn entirely new things about who she is or—you know, who women are and how they respond. And you're very much gonna learn new things about yourself.
But a lot of people—a lot of us guys—are stuck in a place where we're imagining and dreaming about a world that—that's all just a fantasy inside of our heads. And it's funny because we can dream up anything we want, but at the same time, we're stuck inside the same limitations because we know inside of our hearts that, because we're not actually stepping out and doing anything, that the whole thing is actually just collapsing under us.